How to Get Married in Another State (2027)

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Every out-of-state wedding starts at the same desk: the county clerk’s office (in some places a probate court or city clerk) in the county where the ceremony will be held. Their website or a short phone call gives you the current requirements, fees, office hours and whether an appointment is needed — the authoritative version, not a blog’s summary.

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The good news first: the large majority of US states do not require you to live in the state — or even in the country — to get a marriage license there. Tourism and destination weddings depend on it. A small number of jurisdictions have extra conditions, which is exactly why the clerk check comes first.

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A marriage license is not open-ended: it is typically valid for somewhere between 30 and 90 days depending on the state, and the ceremony must happen within that window. Apply too late and a waiting period bites; too early and the license lapses. Count backward from the wedding date and mark the application day on your calendar.

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Many states have no waiting period at all — you can license and marry the same day — while others typically require a wait of 24 hours to 3 days, with occasional exceptions or waivers. For a destination wedding this is the detail that sets your arrival date: fly in early enough that the waiting period is never the day’s drama.

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Typically, both partners apply in person with government photo ID — a driver’s license or passport — and provide details such as birth dates and places and parents’ names; some offices also ask for Social Security numbers for US citizens. Requirements for non-citizens vary. Bring originals, and check the clerk’s list rather than assuming a home-state habit travels.

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Marriage license fees are usually modest — typically somewhere in the $30 to $100 range depending on the state and county, occasionally a little more in popular destination counties, with small extra charges for certified copies. Some offices take cards; a few are cash or check only, which is worth one line in your research notes.

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Blood tests were once a standard license requirement, but they have been repealed in nearly every state and are usually not required today. Because ‘nearly’ is doing some work in that sentence, it remains a one-line question for the clerk — a five-second check that closes a very old worry.

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Most states typically require one or two witnesses to be present and to sign the license, and a few require none at all. Witnesses usually need to be adults who were actually present at the ceremony. Decide who yours are in advance — for an elopement, photographers and venue staff step into this role constantly.

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Who can legally officiate — judges, clerks, clergy, ordained ministers, and in a few places the couple themselves — is set by the marrying state’s law, and an officiant authorized at home is not automatically authorized elsewhere. If your officiant is traveling with you, confirm their standing with the clerk’s office in the ceremony state.

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Having a friend ordained online is common and widely accepted, but a small number of states or counties restrict or question online ordinations. One call to the clerk where you will marry settles whether your officiant’s credentials will be accepted for your license — make that call before the invitations, not after.

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A few jurisdictions — Pennsylvania is the best-known example, with roots in Quaker tradition, and a small number of others have similar provisions — allow self-uniting licenses where the couple marries without an officiant. This is the exception, never the default: if it appeals to you, the clerk in your chosen county will tell you whether it exists there at all.

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If either partner was previously married, the prior marriage must be legally final, and the clerk will usually ask for the date of the divorce (or a spouse’s death) and sometimes a certified copy of the divorce decree. A small number of places have a short waiting period after a divorce becomes final — another detail for the clerk checklist.

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Marriage under 18 is restricted almost everywhere: many states now set 18 as a flat minimum, and where exceptions exist they usually involve parental consent and sometimes a judge’s approval. If this applies to you, treat the clerk’s guidance as the plan itself — this is not an area for internet summaries.

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Plenty of couples marry in a state neither calls home — a beloved city, a mountain town, a beach from a first vacation. Legally it changes nothing beyond the usual destination steps: license from that state’s county, its waiting period honored, its officiant rules followed. The logistics, not the law, are what need planning.

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The single most misunderstood rule: a marriage license is issued for use where it is issued — typically within that state, sometimes that county — and you cannot obtain one at home and use it at a destination ceremony elsewhere. The ceremony’s location decides the license’s origin, every time.

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After the ceremony, the signed license must be returned to the issuing office to be recorded — typically within a set number of days, often somewhere between a few days and a month depending on the jurisdiction. Usually the officiant files it, but the legal responsibility ultimately sits with the couple, so confirm who is mailing what, and keep proof.

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Once the marriage is recorded, you can order certified copies of the marriage certificate from the issuing office, usually for a small fee each. Order several at once: name changes, insurance, banking, immigration or passport processes may each want one, and reordering later from another state takes weeks.

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Couples often worry they must ‘register’ the marriage at home or marry again — generally, no. A marriage that was validly performed under the laws of the state where it took place is recognized across the United States; there is no home-state re-registration step. Keep your certified certificate copies somewhere safe as your standing proof.

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Marriage does not automatically change anyone’s name. If either partner wants a new surname, the recorded marriage certificate is the key document, and the change then happens agency by agency — typically Social Security first for US citizens, then driver’s license or state ID, passport, banks and employers. Each office has its own forms and order preferences.

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For a US couple marrying in Canada, licenses are issued by the province or territory (often through municipal offices or appointed issuers), with their own fees, ID rules and validity windows; a marriage legally performed in Canada is generally recognized in the US. Canadian couples marrying in the US follow the US state’s rules in this guide. Either way, check the specific province or state office where the ceremony will happen.

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In England and Wales, couples must usually give notice at a register office at least about a month before the ceremony, and non-UK nationals can face additional Home Office referral steps and longer timelines; Scotland and Northern Ireland have their own systems. A marriage legally performed in the UK is generally recognized in the US. US readers planning a UK wedding should start with the register office for the ceremony district — early.

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Three myths to retire: living together for a set number of years makes you married (common-law marriage exists in only a few states, with strict conditions, and traveling does not create it); a ceremony anywhere counts if it felt official (without a valid license and authorized officiant, it may not); and a license from one state can be used in another (it cannot). Friendly stories are not law — the clerk is.

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Some states offer accommodations for military couples — waived or shortened waiting periods, expedited processing, and in a very small number of jurisdictions, forms of proxy marriage where one party cannot appear. None of this is uniform, so a deployed timeline should start with the clerk’s office and, where available, the installation legal assistance office.

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If another state’s rules clash with your date — a waiting period that does not fit, an officiant who cannot qualify — many couples hold a small legal ceremony at home (or wherever the paperwork is easiest) and treat the destination event as the celebration. It is a legitimate, increasingly common plan, as long as nobody pretends the symbolic ceremony is the legal one.

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The whole process in one breath: call the clerk where you will marry; confirm residency (usually none), the validity window and any waiting period; gather ID and prior-marriage paperwork; budget the fee (typically $30–$100); verify witnesses and your officiant; marry; make sure the signed license is filed on time; order certified copies. Do those, in that order, and the legal side of an out-of-state wedding is genuinely simple.